Hi hibernate gurus!

I have experienced the following issue:

I have a class with some properties and 5 many-to-one relationship.

<?xml version="1.0"?>

<!DOCTYPE hibernate-mapping PUBLIC "-//Hibernate/Hibernate Mapping DTD 3.0//EN"

"http://www.hibernate.org/dtd/hibernate-mapping-3.0.dtd">

<hibernate-mapping>

    <class name="hibernate.classes.Fszerzfej" table="FSZERZFEJ" catalog="dev1">

            <id name="ffId" type="int">

                <column name="FF_ID" />

                <generator class="identity"/>

            </id>

            <property name="ffSzerzszam" type="string">

                <column name="FF_SZERZSZAM" />

            </property>

            <property name="ffUgyfelkod" type="string">

                <column name="FF_UGYFELKOD" />

            </property>

            <property name="ffUgyfelnev" type="string">

                <column name="FF_UGYFELNEV" />

            </property>

            <property name="ffStIdRegio" type="int">

                <column name="ST_ID_REGIO" />

            </property>

            <property name="ffSzerztipus" type="int">

                <column name="FF_SZERZTIPUS" />

            </property>

            ...

            ...

            ...

          <many-to-one name="regio" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false">

                      <column name="ST_ID_REGIO" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="sterulet" class="hibernate.classes.Sterulet" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false">

                      <column name="ST_ID_TELEPULES" not-null="true"/>

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="szerzst" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false" >

                      <column name="FF_SZERZST" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="ufkodtipus" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false" >

                      <column name="FF_UFKODTIPUS" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="szerztip" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false">

                      <column name="FF_SZERZTIPUS" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

    </class>

</hibernate-mapping>

My another class is using fszerzfej class also with many-to-one ralationship:

<?xml version="1.0"?>

<!DOCTYPE hibernate-mapping PUBLIC "-//Hibernate/Hibernate Mapping DTD 3.0//EN"

"http://www.hibernate.org/dtd/hibernate-mapping-3.0.dtd">

<hibernate-mapping>

    <class name="hibernate.classes.Fszerzpont" table="FSZERZPONT" catalog="dev1">

                  <id name="fpId" type="int" >

                                        <column name="FP_ID" />

                                        <generator class="identity" />

            </id>

            <property name="fpFfId" type="int">

                <column name="FP_FF_ID" />

            </property>

            <property name="fpPontnev" type="string">

                <column name="FP_PONTNEV" />

            </property>

            <property name="fpStRegio" type="int">

                <column name="FP_ST_REGIO" />

            </property>

            <property name="fpStTelepules" type="int">

                <column name="FP_ST_TELEPULES" />

            </property>

            <property name="fpIranyitoszam" type="string">

                <column name="FP_IRANYITOSZAM" />

            </property>

               ...

               ...

            <many-to-one name="regio" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false" >

                      <column name="FP_ST_REGIO" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="sterulet" class="hibernate.classes.Sterulet" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false" >

                      <column name="FP_ST_TELEPULES" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="szerzodesAllapot" class="hibernate.classes.Choicerows" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false">

                      <column name="FP_SZERZST" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="tipus" class="hibernate.classes.GyujtopontTipusok" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false">

                      <column name="gyujtopont_tipus_id" not-null="true" />

                  </many-to-one>

            <many-to-one name="szerzodes" class="hibernate.classes.Fszerzfej" fetch="join" insert="false" update="false" >

                      <column name="FP_FF_ID"/>

                  </many-to-one>        

    </class>

</hibernate-mapping>

The impact is occuring when i am using fszerzpont class the fszerzfej many-to-one relationships fetching mode will be lazy=false.
I dont understand this bahaviour, i am not using getters exampl from  fszerzfej.regio, fszerzfej.sterulet, fszerzfej.szerzst, fszerzfej.ufkodtipus, fszerzfej.szerztip

I am using this relations only from fszerzfej, not from fszerzpont.

I assume lazy fetching should doing this but i am surprised why not :S

How could i tell Hibernate do not use load thoose many-to-one- relations into memory?
My other question is about lazy group fetching. I have read many article but i cant achive to work properly.

Bulidtime ant instrumentation does not work for me :S 

I appreciate any help!
best regards!  

Csaba